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These two cases scarcely call for a commentary. They establish without
further analytic effort that the bitterness children feel about the expected or
actual appearance of a rival finds expression in throwing objects out of the
window and in other acts of naughtiness and destructiveness. In the first case the
heavy objects’ probably symbolized the mother herself, against whom the child’s
anger was directed so long as the new baby had not yet appeared. The
three-and-a-half-year-old boy knew about his mother’s pregnancy and had no doubt that
she had got the baby in her body. ‘Little Hans’¹ and his special dread of heavily
loaded carts may be recalled here.² In the second case the very youthful age
of the child, two and a half years, is noteworthy.
If we now return to Goethe’s childhood memory and put in the place it
occupies in Dichtung und Wahrheit what we believe we have obtained through observations of other children, a
perfectly valid train of thought emerges which we should not otherwise have
discovered. It would run thus: ‘I was a child of fortune: destiny preserved my life,
although I came into the world as though dead. Even more, destiny removed my
brother, so that I did not have to share my mother’s love with him.’ The train
of thought then goes on to someone else who died in those early days - the
grandmother who lived like a quiet friendly spirit in another part of the house.
I have, however, already remarked elsewhere that if a man has been his
mother’s undisputed darling he retains throughout life the triumphant feeling, the
confidence in success, which not seldom brings actual success along with it.
And Goethe might well have given some such heading to his autobiography as: ‘My
strength has its roots in my relation to my mother.’
¹ Cf. ‘Analysis of a Phobia in a Five-Year-Old Boy’, (1909b)
² Further confirmation of this pregnancy-symbolism was given me some time ago
by a lady of over fifty. She had often been told that as a little child, when
she could hardly talk, she used to drag her father to the window in great
agitation whenever a heavy furniture-van was passing along the street. In view of
other recollections of the houses they had lived in, it became possible to
establish that she was then younger than two and three quarter years. At about that
time the brother next to her was born, and in consequence of this addition to the
family a move was made. At about the same time, she often had an alarming
feeling before going to sleep of something uncannily large, that came up to her, and
‘her hands got so thick’.