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This new mechanism of homosexual object-choice - its origin in rivalry
which has been overcome and in aggressive impulses which have become repressed - is
sometimes combined with the typical conditions already familiar to us. In the
history of homosexuals one often hears that the change in them took place after
the mother had praised another boy and set him up as a model. The tendency to
a narcissistic object-choice was thus stimulated, and after a short phase of
keen jealousy the rival became a love-object. As a rule, however, the new
mechanism is distinguished by the change taking place at a much earlier period, and
the identification with the mother receding into the background. Moreover, in the
cases I have observed, it led only to homosexual attitudes which did not
exclude heterosexuality and did not involve a horror feminae.
It is well known that a good number of homosexuals are characterized by a
special development of their social instinctual impulses and by their devotion
to the interests of the community. It would be tempting, as a theoretical
explanation of this, to say that the behaviour towards men in general of a man who
sees in other men potential love-objects must be different from that of a man who
looks upon other men in the first instance as rivals in regard to women. The
only objection to this is that jealousy and rivalry play their part in
homosexual love as well, and that the community of men also includes these potential
rivals. Apart from this speculative explanation, however, the fact that homosexual
object-choice not infrequently proceeds from an early overcoming of rivalry
with men cannot be without a bearing on the connection between homosexuality and
social feeling.
In the light of psycho-analysis we are accustomed to regard social feeling
as a sublimation of homosexual attitudes towards objects. In the homosexuals
with marked social interests, it would seem that the detachment of social feeling
from object choice has not been fully carried through.