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But now everything has changed. The time before me is limited. The whole of
it is no longer spent in working, so that my opportunities for making fresh
observations are not so numerous. If I think I see something new, I am uncertain
whether I can wait for it to be confirmed. And further, everything that is to
be seen upon the surface has already been exhausted; what remains has to be
slowly and laboriously dragged up from the depths. Finally, I am no longer alone.
An eager crowd of fellow-workers is ready to make use of what is unfinished or
doubtful, and I can leave to them that part of the work which I should otherwise
have done myself. On this occasion, therefore, I feel justified in publishing
something which stands in urgent need of confirmation before its value or lack
of value can be decided.
In examining the earliest mental shapes assumed by the sexual life of
children we have been in the habit of taking as the subject of our investigations
the male child, the little boy. With little girls, so we have supposed, things
must be similar, though in some way or other they must nevertheless be different.
The point in development at which this difference lay could not be clearly
determined.
In boys the situation of the Oedipus complex is the first stage that can be
recognized with certainty. It is easy to understand, because at that stage a
child retains the same object which he previously cathected with his libido -
not as yet a genital one - during the preceding period while he was being suckled
and nursed. The fact, too, that in this situation he regards his father as a
disturbing rival and would like to get rid of him and take his place is a
straightforward consequence of the actual state of affairs. I have shown elsewhere¹
how the Oedipus attitude in little boys belongs to the phallic phase, and how
its destruction is brought about by the fear of castration - that is, by
narcissistic interest in their genitals. The matter is made more difficult to grasp by
the complicating circumstance that even in boys the Oedipus complex has a
double orientation, active and passive, in accordance with their bisexual
constitution; a boy also wants to take his mother’s place as the love-object of his father - a fact which we describe as the feminine attitude.
¹ ‘The Dissolution of the Oedipus Complex’ (1924d).