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Even after penis-envy has abandoned its true object, it continues to exist:
by an easy displacement it persists in the character-trait of jealousy. Of course, jealousy is not limited to one sex and has a wider foundation
than this, but I am of opinion that it plays a far larger part in the mental life
of women than of men and that that is because it is enormously reinforced from
the direction of displaced penis-envy. While I was still unaware of this source
of jealousy and was considering the phantasy ‘a child is being beaten’, which
occurs so commonly in girls, I constructed a first phase for it in which its
meaning was that another child, a rival of whom the subject was jealous, was to
be beaten.¹ This phantasy seems to be a relic of the phallic period in girls.
The peculiar rigidity which struck me so much in the monotonous formula ‘a child
is being beaten’ can probably be interpreted in a special way. The child which
is being beaten (or caressed) may ultimately be nothing more nor less than the
clitoris itself, so that at its very lowest level the statement will contain a
confession of masturbation, which has remained attached to the content of the
formula from its beginning in the phallic phase till later life.
A third consequence of penis-envy seems to be a loosening of the girl’s
relation with her mother as a love-object. The situation as a whole is not very
clear, but it can be seen that in the end the girl’s mother, who sent her into
the world so insufficiently equipped, is almost always held responsible for her
lack of a penis. The way in which this comes about historically is often that
soon after the girl has discovered that her genitals are unsatisfactory she
begins to show jealousy of another child on the ground that her mother is fonder of
it than of her, which serves as a reason for her giving up her affectionate
relation to her mother. It will fit in with this if the child which has been
preferred by her mother is made into the first object of the beating-phantasy which
ends in masturbation.
¹ ‘"A child is Being Beaten"’ (1919e).