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The Oedipus complex, however, is such an important thing that the manner in
which one enters and leaves it cannot be without its effects. In boys (as I
have shown at length in the paper to which I have just referred and to which all
of my present remarks are closely related) the complex is not simply repressed,
it is literally smashed to pieces by the shock of threatened castration. Its
libidinal cathexes are abandoned, desexualized and in part sublimated; its
objects are incorporated into the ego, where they form the nucleus of the super-ego
and give that new structure its characteristic qualities. In normal, or, it is
better to say, in ideal cases, the Oedipus complex exists no longer, even in
the unconscious; the super-ego has become its heir. Since the penis (to follow
Ferenczi) owes its extraordinarily high narcissistic cathexis to its organic
significance for the propagation of the species, the catastrophe to the Oedipus
complex (the abandonment of incest and the institution of conscience and morality)
may be regarded as a victory of the race over the individual. This is an
interesting point of view when one considers that neurosis is based upon a struggle
of the ego against the demands of the sexual function. But to leave the
standpoint of individual psychology is not of any immediate help in clarifying this
complicated situation.
In girls the motive for the demolition of the Oedipus complex is lacking.
Castration has already had its effect, which was to force the child into the
situation of the Oedipus complex. Thus the Oedipus complex escapes the fate which
it meets with in boys: it may be slowly abandoned or dealt with by repression,
or its effects may persist far into women’s normal mental life. I cannot evade
the notion (though I hesitate to give it expression) that for women the level
of what is ethically normal is different from what it is in men. Their super-ego
is never so inexorable, so impersonal, so independent of its emotional origins
as we require it to be in men. Character-traits which critics of every epoch
have brought up against women - that they show less sense of justice than men,
that they are less ready to submit to the great exigencies of life, that they
are more often influenced in their judgements by feelings of affection or
hostility - all these would be amply accounted for by the modification in the
formation of their super-ego which we have inferred above. We must not allow ourselves
to be deflected from such conclusions by the denials of the feminists, who are
anxious to force us to regard the two sexes as completely equal in position and
worth; but we shall, of course, willingly agree that the majority of men are
also far behind the masculine ideal and that all human individuals, as a result
of their bisexual disposition and of cross-inheritance, combine in themselves
both masculine and feminine characteristics, so that pure masculinity and
femininity remain theoretical constructions of uncertain content.